In today’s world, finding fidelity seems akin to discovering a rare gem amidst a sea of shifting sands. The concept of staying faithful in a relationship for years has become increasingly elusive, with various societal influences presenting us with both challenges and choices regarding fidelity.

I must admit, I am no saintly figure like Mother Teresa when it comes to fidelity. Circumstances have often led me down paths where fidelity was not an easily chosen option. Instead, I found myself in situations that demanded difficult decisions, ultimately shaping my approach to commitment and relationships. Even working in professional settings like doctor’s offices or hospitals doesn’t always permit for the best mate. I can recall the dozen eye balls rolling at the nursing station every time I would be talking to a doctor or go to lunch with a staff member. 

You can’t expect anyone to remain the same person or feel the same way after many years of separation. This realization led me to fill my life with exciting people, fun adventures, and encounters that made each moment more enjoyable and fulfilling. Embracing change and growth became integral to my understanding of fidelity and commitment.

One particular gift, bestowed upon me by the Creator, stands as a beacon of fidelity in my life. However, beyond this singular connection, through conditioning I have learned to view people as temporary figures, and sadly I have learned to expect nothing from “so-called” relatives and more from friends fleeting in their presence yet impactful in their own way. This perspective has taught me to navigate relationships with a blend of appreciation for the present moment and an acknowledgment of impermanence. As I reflect on these experiences, I feel compelled to share my journey with my readers.